2022.01.16 22:50 Altruistic-Finance68 Uber eats all weather
2022.01.16 22:50 Infinite-Law-9548 DrunkenMonkeypunk
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2022.01.16 22:50 Icantkeepupwith I don't know if my BF(23m) likes me(24f) anymore or if it's his ADHD
We've been together 10 months, so not that long. My boyfriend has ADHD - and he has a hyper fixation right now (a card game). It started about 4 months ago but it is life consuming for him - he's always buying, trading, watching streams, ect. I think he tries not to but he still interrupts once in awhile completely ignoring what I've said to talk about the game. This also got picked up during an incredibly stressful time in his life that will be ongoing for the next year so I do realize in some manner it's coping. I'm in psych so I'm somewhat aware of hyper fixation but my research focus is more trauma - so I'm not very knowledgable about the subject. My best friend has severe ADHD but doesn't go through hyper fixations the same way, I lived with her for a few years and I know how debilitating ADHD can be so I try to be as understanding as possible. But it seems now not only is he obsessed with the game, but he also appears to be like subtly giving me hints he's not interested in me?
Now, I have PTSD and am very bad at reading social situations from that neglect. I am very convinced everything I say is stupid, I'll be convinced I'm failing even though I leave every semester with A's, and sometimes I become convinced my boyfriend is dating me for some other reason (he pities me, he can cheat easier bc I'm ugly, w/e) than actually liking me. I am medicated and do have a 3 hour therapy session a week on top of my college and research work so I know a lot of these intrusive thoughts are not true. But on occasion I come to a point where I know something is close enough to 'off' that I want to default back to those awful thoughts to prove them (and my parents) right. I think that I just want some advice or to hear from people if they think it's normal, especially if they are ADHD/on that spectrum.
We are long distance but he's visited me 4 times, and I don't think he's cheating in his room atleast because I send him lots of letters and they are pinned all over his walls. It would take forever to put them up and down. He lives with his parents while paying off his car (he had some severe medical issues but is feeling somewhat better now and he hopes to move out next year) and his parents know about me as well. Although his facebook is completely shut down from everyone so if I share anything on his wall or anything no one else can see it.
+ Lately the reason it appears he doesn't like me is because he doesn't respond to any of my sexual comments really, and he used to a ton. We were healthily sexual before. Or we'd have banter atleast. Well now he's just sending me an emoji each time I make any joke, suggestion, or slick remark. I asked him about it and he will literally skirt the question or say he doesn't know. I've lost 30+lbs, but I have been dressing up less because extreme stress with me in my senior year of college but even when I do dress up it's doing nothing during VC's. He will literally send me an emoji after any sexual comment I make and then start talking about his card game.
+ The next thing is he's visiting me in 3 weeks, he's from the south, I'm from the very north of north. He makes comments about how awful the weather is and how he's going to freeze constantly. It dusted snow in his state and he made it a point to show me and talk about how dreadful it is. I have 1+ feet of snow in my state and point blank asked him if he wanted to see me and he said he does he just hates the cold. It's just weird to me he keeps bringing it up like he's not going to have a good time here. I know he's from the south so it's probably a big deal but I've told him it hurts my feelings and he still does it.
+ The last thing is that he won't ever talk about the future. It was hard to get him to pin down a time for this vacation even, not to mention further than that. What he wants, what his dream career would be, if he actually wants kids (I'm tied), ect. He "goes with the flow" and I appreciate that (I've also learned ADHD people tend to have out-of-sight out-of-mind memory so the future is hard to place and that effects time management) - but I just have never been with someone like that at all. A year in you think he'd want to make sure both of our trajectories in what we want is sort of the same?
Am I letting my thoughts get to me again, is there maybe another truth missing here? How would you go about talking about these issues that doesn't sound accusatory or like I don't accept him as a person?
TD;LR My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about our future, talks constantly about how much he hates the cold (but is going to visit me in 3 weeks in the north), and doesn't respond to sexual talk. This slowly started and got worse when he began his card game fetish a few months ago.
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2022.01.16 22:50 billyfrommanchester 48 Tft
2022.01.16 22:50 MangoHawkist Mughal by 2025
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2022.01.16 22:50 NotSolzv [XB1] H: Bine90 radium rifle, Bine Gho minigun W: Offers
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2022.01.16 22:50 MinerAC4 Title
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2022.01.16 22:50 Dingyps How different would day to day life be if gravity wasn't a constant and would fluctuate in strength?
2022.01.16 22:50 bubbles773 Ear pressure/derealization
40 year old female Weight 110 Height 5’3” Active/healthy Health issues: atrial flutter (controlled), insomnia.
Dealing with intense ear pressure since 2018. Recently it has gotten worse.
Yesterday, I completely lost touch wit my body, felt like my brain was swimming and it scared the bejesus out of me. Turned into a serious panic attack.
Got into the shower, manually cleared some pressure in my ears and the anxiety/out of body experience disappeared. My question is, can the pressure cause these symptoms?! I felt like I needed to go to the ER for insanity when this happened. Last month my ears were so bad that I had vertigo for two weeks! Ugh I’m miserable.
For my ears I take daily Flonase, humidifier. Cannot take decongestants due to atrial flutter (in cardizem for this).
Am I going crazy or can this extreme inner ear pressure make someone go into derealization?
I have seen an ENT and was informed that my ear drums are “turned-inwards” and need tubes. Just wondering if the pressure can be making me feel crazy/out of touch.
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2022.01.16 22:50 3leggedpelican Found a dead squirrel in the gutter.
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2022.01.16 22:50 YoMyGoshAThrowAway How do i break up with someone if i don't experience romantic attraction?
I think i'm aromantic, and i was trying to deny it for a while but i think i am. I was aromantic before my gf told me about her feelings for me, and i guess i didn't want to hurt her feelings, or i thought i loved her back, so i accepted.
She's a great person, and she's really caring, and i love her, not romantically, platonically. I'm not sure how she'll respond, i don't want her to get upset. I still want to be friends with her, but I'm not sure if she'll forgive me. I'm also worried that her friends might harass me, or something, cuz they care about her a lot.
Me and my gf also did some things together, this was when i was convinced i did experience romantic attraction, and i'm afraid if i break up with her she'll think i used her, or she'll hate me. Please give me some advice, idk what to do
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2022.01.16 22:50 cardboardtube_knight [MS] Od Laguna is getting real sick of your shit...
2022.01.16 22:50 LordVader1080 The unvaccinated are now forbidden to use public transportation in the Philippines starting tomorrow
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2022.01.16 22:50 kykysayshi Linen closet smells like ammonia and has these streaks running down it. Is something peeing in the same spot in my attic? I haven’t heard any critters but the pee smell has gotten real bad over the last week and now today my door even warped and no longer shuts. Could it be something else?
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2022.01.16 22:50 wutssarcasm Mauna Loa Hoya for sale!
2022.01.16 22:50 Sushruth_PES And that's a fact
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2022.01.16 22:50 Tellin_Truths Congress Needs A New Bill
To make it illegal for rich unelected control freaks to have anything to do with anything. If they try to do anything, they should have their non-profit organizations seized and donated to homeless camps.
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2022.01.16 22:50 Starwarsandbacon The future is bright and beautiful! Where all my 1 year 💎✋ at?
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2022.01.16 22:50 Lbruce31 How to Spawn Scallops Reliably?
I know they spawn on your hull and the wiki says in Hummingberg (Winter) and Oxbury, so I’ve been traveling around the northern part of the map past the ice ridge and sitting in Oxbury’s port when I need a break from the former method.
Has anybody found a reliable way to spawn scallops or know where a good place to get them is?
I only need one to complete the fish dex and end the game.
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2022.01.16 22:50 st3ban04 .
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2022.01.16 22:50 SchmidtHR12 Can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong
2022.01.16 22:50 mememan18 The constant rain
For the past two days, consistently, it has been raining. Early in the day it lets up, but after that it's downpouring forever. It's made shooter born effectively impossible from the fog.
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2022.01.16 22:50 maya1118 Why are crime rates SO HIGH?!?!
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2022.01.16 22:50 checyy1 Yuzu and Mei as a lamp!
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2022.01.16 22:50 jt91 Another Khornate Champion for my Warriors of Chaos army
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